July 12th, 2008

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I am often asked by students how or where to start, when it comes to changing their life, and my response is always the same - commit to spiritual growth. It is the key to change and achievement.
Spirituality is not a religion or a philosophy and it is does not belong to new age incense burning hippies. Spirituality relates to relationship and lifestyle. The type of relationships we have with self and others and the type of lifestyle we create for ourselves is a direct reflection of our level of spirituality.
So if we want to improve our relationships and lifestyle - we commit to spiritual development, and the first step toward spiritual growth requires changing the way we think. In a sense, it requires a spiritual renewal around our thoughts and attitudes.
The way we think determines the way we feel determines the way we act determines the way we create.
“Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts.” proverb 4:23
Unfortunately we have a tendency to run on autopilot, that is, old tapes playing constantly in our head, shaping our thinking and therefore our behavior. Willpower has been proven ineffective when it comes to switching off autopilot. Whilst sheer will can produce results, they are usually short-term changes that create internal conflict and stress because it is not our natural behavior.
According to Rick Warren, author of The Purpose Driven Life: there are two parts to spiritual growth or CHANGE - a ‘work out’ and a ‘work in’.
“The ‘work out’ is your responsibility, and the ‘work in’ is God’s role. Spiritual growth is a collaborative effort between you and the Holy Spirit. God’s Spirit works with us, not just in us.”
Warren clarifies this statement by saying it “is not about how to be saved, but how to grow… During physical ‘workout,’ you exercise to develop your body, not to get a body.”
Our ‘work out’ requires us to be responsible and mature with our thinking and attitude - we grow up! The ‘work in’ requires meditation and prayer to evoke natural change - we grow rich!
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Each morning I draw three affirmation cards from a small handcrafted bowl that I keep on my desk.









Distracted from studies, this young Vietnamese Buddhist monk daydreams in solitude - an act essential for nourishment of the Soul and creative inspiration.
A wise person once wrote “a peaceful relationship isn’t finding the right person but being the right person.”
I recently received an email from a friend - a fellow artist, that I met during my travels in Vietnam. She wrote to let me know that she had recently finished a painting that was inspired by our travels on the Mekong River and about to start another.
We restore dignity by making choices that are healthy and sustaining for our self. In making healthy choices, we honour what is right for us.
